It’ll never be what she says that you should pay the closest attention to, but the things that stay in her mouth, the words that she does not say. The love of a woman is a powerful and beautiful thing, but her silence can be truly deafening. Hear what she says, soak in her voice and take heart of the things she shares, but if you want to truly begin to understand the complexity and depth of a woman, start to pay close attention to all the things she doesn’t say. Her eyes will speak countless words that her soul yearns to express, yet she never does. Her quiet resolve and the strong facade that she maintains for the world to see protect her in ways that mere words never can. The walls around her heart, the hidden beauty of her soul, the latent dreams and unspoken desires are all part of her mystery. Cherish her, appreciate her and respect her, for she fights battles that you’ll never know or understand. She’ll tuck it all behind few words.. “I’m okay”..” everything’s fine.. ”Those are the painful whispers of an internal war that she wages so very often. You’ll rarely see her tears, for she often cries in solitude- the shower, the car, in bed. She doesn’t want the world to judge her or for others to worry, she just has those moments when her heart erupts tears of release, and she needs that momentary meltdown to keep going. So, don’t ever mistake her silence for lack of concern, for it’s just the opposite. She has a million things to tell you, but often just doesn’t even know where to start. Be patient, be respectful and be compassionate. And whatever you do, don’t push her over the edge too far, or she might never come back the same way you once knew.. Because when she has made her decision, there’s no more chances and no more starting over.. There’s just silence. She has no more words, no more tears and nothing left for you, for your relationship.. She won’t talk any more about what’s happened or what you can do, because It won’t matter. She’s done. She’s silent because she has nothing left for you.. She’s walking away. It’s that same silence that will tell you- if you know how to listen-everything you ever wanted to know about the real beauty and depth of a woman.. Just don’t wait too long and lose the wonderful opportunity to love her in all the ways she truly deserves.. Before it’s too late.. Because when it is, all you’ll hear is her silence.
Taken from Ravenwolf
Psalm 56:8 Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?